Is Your Child Ready?
Pumping on a swing may seem simple enough, but it’s actually a pretty complicated maneuver. A few things need to happen before a child can learn to do it. First, make sure your child is OK on a big-kid swing, rather than riding high in a bucket-type one. (Bucket-type swings are a lot harder for a child to self-pump on.) Your preschooler will need to have some balance and promise to always hold on tight to the ropes or chains while sitting in the seat. (Reinforce that a few times.) It will take a few sessions of playground playing before she might feel comfortable with this new sensation of sitting on a non-bucket-type swing. There really isn’t much support on a typical playground swing set that doesn’t have a back or front, so don’t rush your child. Give them a chance to get used to it and feel like they’re ready to take the next step.
Techniques
Once you think they’re ready, explain how they are going to be in charge of making the swing go, instead of your pushes. (Preschoolers love being in charge, so this is a good way to phrase it, especially if your child seems reluctant to start pumping the swing themselves.) To start, get on a swing yourself. Let your child watch you swing and pump. As you go, give some play-by-play of what you are doing. “Legs back, legs out.” When it’s your child’s time to start the process of pumping their own swing, walk them through it. Explain how they need to bend their legs while they are headed backward and to straighten them when they are moving forward. Depending on your preschooler’s comfort level, you might want to continue to pump your own swing or stand next to their swing as they pump.
A Word From Verywell
Be patient. Chances are your child is not going to master it right away, and may even ask to have you push them again. That’s OK, have them keep practicing
