Some experts suspect that teens today are delaying or reducing their sexual activity. Others believe that teens are becoming more educated about birth control methods and being more proactive about preventing pregnancy. That said, teen pregnancy does still happen. Although most parents would like to think their teen would never have unprotected sex, teen pregnancy can happen in any family. However, there are certain risk factors that make some teens more likely to become pregnant. As a parent, educating yourself about risk factors can help you support your teen and mitigate the risks.
Individual Risk Factors
Experiencing any of the following may put a teen at a higher risk of becoming pregnant:
Ambivalence about having a child Being the victim of sexual abuse Drug and alcohol use Having sex at a young age Lack of goals for the future Lack of knowledge about sex or contraception Low self-esteem Negative attitude towards using contraception Poor school performance
Social Risk Factors
A teen’s friends often play a significant role in their decision to pursue a romantic relationship and become sexually active. Some social risk factors for teen pregnancy include:
Dating at an early age Dating older people Friends who are sexually active Poor peer relationships Pressure from peers to have sex
Family Risk Factors
You can’t control everything about your family, but you can address some of the risk factors that might be present within it. Family risk factors that can increase a teen’s risk of pregnancy include:
Family history of teenage pregnancies Limited communication between parents and teenNegative family interactionsPoor parental supervisionSignificant unresolved conflict between family membersSingle-parent families
Preventing Teen Pregnancy
While you can’t get rid of all the possible risk factors facing your teen, you can take steps to reduce the likelihood that they will become a parent during their teenage years. Research shows that the most important thing you can do as a parent is talk to your teen about sex.
Talk to Your Teen
Ongoing conversations about sex are imperative. Most parents think it won’t happen in their family, but assuming that your teen isn’t having sex or that they are not interested in romantic relationships could increase their risk of teen pregnancy. Talk with your teen about your values and your expectations. If you make it clear that you disapprove of sex during high school, it is possible that your teen might be less likely to become sexually active. It can also be beneficial to make it clear that your teen can come to you with any questions or concerns they have to help prevent your teen from feeling like they have to hide things from you.
Provide Accurate Information
Hold open discussions and allow your teen to ask questions. This can help ensure that they are well-informed. While they can be informative, don’t depend solely on the sex education programs in your teen’s school to teach them everything they need to know about pregnancy and sex. Parental support is imperative when it comes to discussing things like effective birth control and sexually transmitted diseases.
Additional Considerations
Establish rules about dating that are meant to keep your teen safe. Make sure your teen is well-supervised. That doesn’t mean that you need to chaperone their dates, but you should enforce rules that limit your teen’s opportunities to engage in sexual activity. Keep in mind that technology has changed relationships and romance for teens and adults. Teens spend hours texting and sharing photos online, which can give them a feeling of closeness to someone—even if they do not necessarily spend a lot of in-person time with them. Most of all, help your teen become a well-rounded individual. Teens with lots of interests, activities, and goals are typically less likely to become sexually active at an early age. Finally, when you take them for their annual wellness appointments, give your teen the chance to speak with their doctor alone. Sometimes, teens who feel hesitant to ask their parents about sex or contraception are more comfortable discussing these topics with a medical professional, counselor, or another trusted adult.
