Each letter is a tangible expression of your love and pride, combined with the hopes and dreams you have for their future. They may even pick one out of a keepsake box in 20 years and be reminded of just how special they are to you. Your letter can offer encouragement through eight simple words that every child should hear. For example, you might say:
“It’s hard for me to describe much I love you!““Being your parent has been one of the greatest gifts in my life.““There’s nothing that could ever change how I feel about you.”
For example, you might point out:
The generosity your son has for his siblingsThe kindness your daughter shows her friendsThe maturity you’ve witnessed in how your child handles conflicts
Think about the simple things that bring a smile to your face and theirs:
Playing gamesCooking togetherReading together
For example, you might express pride in your child’s:
Interpersonal relationships Academic progress or work ethic Athletic abilities or various talents
For example, you might include:
Memories of a shared vacationAn observation you’ll never forgetA time when you realized your child had grown in some way
Try not to put unnecessary pressure on them with something like, “I hope you become a doctor.” Instead, offer encouragement for what you observe at the moment:
Your hopes for your child’s friendshipsYour hopes for your child’s own observations of his talentsYour hopes regarding their dreams
For instance, you might include:
Your own convictions about their futureA Bible or inspirational verse that speaks to this time in her lifeA quotation that has touched you personally
Think of promises you know you can keep:
“I promise to always love you, no matter what.““I promise to listen to what you have to say.““I promise to always consider your feelings and try to see things from your point of view.”
