Develop a list of the questions you have as you work through the fine print, too. And if you are working with a lawyer, be sure to ask those questions before your next child custody hearing. Take note of whether your state requires your application to be notarized as well. If it does, complete every section except the signature and then visit your local notary public. Many bank branches offer this service free of charge. Having said that, being polite and friendly never hurts! The clerk can be a powerful resource as you prepare for your hearing. So, think carefully about what you really want to say, because you’ll only have a few minutes to share your point of view. It helps to write out a list of the issues you want to address, and then narrow it down to the most important topics. Practice what you want to say with a friend, too, so that you can further trim down your talking points. Don’t allow yourself to be rattled by anything that your ex says, either. Simply present the facts of your case, as you know them. In addition, remember to listen twice as much as you speak. Never interrupt the judge, and make sure you answer every question completely. In the meantime, do everything that the court recommends, whether that’s taking a parenting class, getting a job, or moving into a larger apartment. Do whatever is in your power to meet any demands set by the court, and trust that when your case is revisited in the future, your efforts will pay off.
