The Big Benefits of Family Fitness
Those habits can provide lots of good things you probably already know about. Being physically active and eating well promote disease prevention, weight loss or maintenance, stress reduction, improved performance at school and work, increased longevity, and more. As parents, we are role models for our kids, so making family fitness a priority sets a great precedent. But we get something out of the deal too. Role modeling helps hold us accountable for our own behavior. For kids, being introduced to healthy behaviors early is a gift. They are so ready to learn and retain new information and create good habits when they are young. Doing so will help build their physical confidence, too. And everyone in the family can benefit from the bonding that comes from sharing active play and family meals.
Get Started With a Family Fitness Plan
The first step to a fun and effective plan is a goal. Maybe you’re concerned about your child’s weight or your own. Maybe you’ve noticed your family’s habits and hobbies tend to be sedentary instead of active. Maybe you made a resolution (for the New Year, a birthday, or back to school) to change your lifestyle. Maybe you’re planning an active summer vacation, or your child wants to join a sports team and needs to get in shape. Whatever your reason, there are lots of ways to get started on improving your family’s fitness. Creating a family fitness plan need not be complicated or overwhelming. What it really means is a new commitment to adding more activity to your life. It might help to think of it as a challenge you tackle together. Work on sending the message that physical activity is a fun, healthy habit that makes you feel good, not a chore to be endured. You can do this by:
Asking your child to teach you: Are they a star skater or a whiz at water polo? Request a lesson! Active kids love to show off their expertise. Enjoying exercise: Whether it’s a vigorous kickboxing class or a leisurely walk, tell your child how you feel after you’re done. Energized? Happier? Tired, but proud of what you accomplished? Playing together: Kids love your attention. Take them to the playground, go outside for a game of catch, or have a spontaneous dance party. Praising effort, not results: Your child won’t be able to ride a two-wheeler or sink a basket on their first attempt. To fend off frustration (in both inactive and active kids), be sure to acknowledge how hard they’re trying. Offering positive reinforcement: If your child makes a healthy choice, notice it—out loud. When they learn a new skill, record it on video, and show it to friends and family. Setting a good example: Choose action over electronics whenever you can. Walk to the store instead of driving, take the stairs, and shelve the leaf blower in favor of a rake. Even if you’re not athletic, you can move!
Don’t fall prey to confidence-zappers like using exercise as punishment, offering food as a reward, or using scare tactics. Instead of, “If you watch too much TV, you’ll get fat and sick,” say something like, “Riding your bike helps make your legs and heart strong.” If they’re old enough, talk to your kids about what you’re doing and get their buy-in. What are their favorite healthy snacks? Which fitness class would they like to take at your local community center? What family fitness goal can you work toward together—and how might you reward yourselves?
Family Fitness, Age by Age
While all children need daily physical activity, their interests and abilities change as they grow. Know what your child needs now.
Physical Activity for Preschoolers (Plus: Active Toy Ideas for Little Kids) Fitness for School-Aged Kids (Plus: Toy Picks) Fitness for Teens and Tweens (Plus: Toys They Won’t Outgrow)
Share Active Play
Ready, set, go! The key is to find fitness activities that inspire you to keep moving. Change things up often to keep from falling into a rut. Look for sports, exercises, and games that you can do together, separately, or both—whatever works for your family. To get you started:
22 Playful, Physical Outdoor Activities for Kids Active Options for Family Game Night Big Fun With Simple Toys Easy Exercises for Kids Fit and Fun Social Activities Pump Up Playtime With Playground Activities
All About Youth Sports
If your kids participate in youth sports, great! They’ll score big benefits from doing so, and there are even some nice perks for sports parents, too (along with the volunteer work). While sports can be challenging for your family schedule and wallet, the boost to your child’s fitness, social skills, and sense of sportsmanship usually makes them worth your while. They’re also just a lot of fun. Maybe one of these 14 unusual sports will do the trick—and you’ll become a die-hard sports parent after all. Practicing your child’s sport of choice outside of team time is a great way to stay active together, too.
Family Fitness for Moms and Dads
Fitting in fitness is a big challenge for most parents, no matter what your particular circumstances are. Sometimes the challenges are logistical, sometimes physical, sometimes mental. To overcome them, keep trying until you find a strategy that works. That could mean rethinking your schedule; finding an unexpected, inexpensive fitness class or workout opportunity; decluttering your home to inspire exercise; checking out a group fitness class or podcast that inspires you; or working to beat fitness backsliding. Once you get into a groove, you’ll want to work on sticking with an exercise routine.
Family Fitness in the Kitchen
Ever heard the expression, “You can’t exercise your way out of a bad diet”? That’s as true for families as it is for people with weight loss goals. It’s important to start with a good breakfast, serve up sensible snacks and school lunches, and find a way to get dinner on the table (even if the “table” is the back seat of your car). Prepping in advance helps a lot, and so can the right shopping list. And don’t forget plenty of water.
A Word From Verywell
Family fitness is a way of life, not an instant fix. Give yourself time and space to make changes and form new habits. Slow and steady wins this race, but you can win it. You need the right mindset and the right tools, and you can find them right here.
